Thursday, May 7, 2009

Communication Climate

The definition of communication is the emotional tone of a relationship. Having a good climate is key to a positive relationship. This is shaped by the perception of value of each person in the relationship. For a relationship to last and be healthy one must value and love the other individual. I have seen many relationships where one or both persons in the relationship are under stress constantly based on their home life. There are many reasons why this is unhealthy. First, the relationship will probably not be life long if one is under stress constantly. This individual will probably have a breakdown at some point and more than likely end the relationship. Another reason this is not healthy is that it can be dangerous in the work place. If a person is under stress and always thinking about what is going on at home, they are obviously not concentrating on what is going on in front of them at work and that is when people get hurt.
For a relationship to be healthy things need, for the most part, to being going smoothly with out an over amount of fighting. To receive love and value from the other person in the relationship, one must treat them how they want to be treated in return. This goes right along with the confirming aspect of communication. You need to confirm to your loved one that you do actually love them and value them for who they are. If you portray or dis confirm that you value them, the relationship will go south in a hurry.

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